What importance does love have in bringing up righteous children?

It is essential that the mother, in raising the children, should breastfeed them and not feed them from the bottles, as much as humanly possible. That is the right of the child. Allah created the mother with this body part, which is the right of the child. There is a big difference for a child to drink from a bottle and drink from the breast. One has warmth; they feel the love of the mother, the closeness. The others are cold plastic, glass, and rubber. The studies have also shown that the children’s personality will be affected because of this. If it is raised in a loving environment given by the mother, they will have a gentle character. If they are raised in a cold environment, they will also be like that.

There is a theory in psychology, if the child is picked up, cuddled, hugged every time the child cries, then they will gain control over you. They will become your master. We should just let him cry when they ask to be hugged, and they will learn that crying out of nothing will not benefit them. Will they understand that way? No. To be hugged is the right of a child. They can ask to be hugged and cuddled. This merciful and loving environment will help them to grow up. It will make a big difference when they grow up.